The most important part of the experiences you have, are the lessons that you learn, and apply moving forward. There is something powerful about not making the same mistakes over, and over. If you can move through the ranks with minimal damage, and multiple lessons, that is to be applauded, because there are people whose goal every day is to destroy the roads you travel, and make it more difficult for you to get through. Sports figures train, scholars study, and if you're serious about becoming great at what you do, it is imperative that you work at it every day. I have shaken hands with people who were using those same hands to pray for my downfall, not sure who they were praying to, but I am thankful to still be here.